Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Rules to Successfully Court
• Find someone who you have some kind of attraction too.
• Then try to get in contact with them. It is best if you can talk to them, and try to get to know them better. This stage is usually the flirting stage, it is a vital period because it is the time for you show the person your good qualities, and also find things out about them.
• During your conversations try to assess if they too have the same attraction toward.
• Evaluate what their personality and how it complements yours.
• Find things about that person accentuates their personalities. Beauty and physical appears should not be the deciding factor in continuing a pursuit.
• When you are sure that this person is the right one, and are sure that they like you ask them out on a date.
• If they reject you, it is acceptable to ask one more times but not right away; but if they do not give a valid reason for rejecting you, do not waste your time because chances are they do not like you.
• If they accept, dates are important because it is the deciding factor of what happens next. It would be best for the first date to be interactive, avoid movies because you are not getting to know someone by setting in dark theater.
• It is important to not move to fast or to slow. Do not go for the kiss on the first date but do not wait until the tenth. Because you have to keep your date interested if you move to fast they might get overwhelmed and leave because it is to much for them to handle. Nonetheless, if you make them wait forever they might loses all interest in you.
• After a fair amount of dates, discussing the next step with your significant other would be great. Find out if they want to bring the relationship to the next level. Being in a committed relationship is a lot of work. Also you have to be sure that it is what you want.
• If you think they are the right person and both of you want the same thing ask them to be your boyfriend or girlfriend.

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